Probably not! Mindfulness is usually a results of the event of every particular person.
However sure, if one lives mindfully, it undoubtedly has an excellent influence and affect on these round them and linked to them. Additionally, it’s a given indisputable fact that youngsters study probably the most by watching their dad and mom.
Due to this fact right here, the Enlightened One suggests:
Initially, you each, husband and spouse, reside mindfully. Don’t see faults in one another, don’t damage one another, and shouldn’t have extreme attachment in direction of one another, shouldn’t have extreme expectations and blame upon one another. Reside having love for one another and keep as companions on the journey to liberation. Kids will mechanically be cultured and well-behaved then.
For any of their dangerous or damaging habits, attempt explaining to them with love and discover methods out. If we ask our baby, ‘Don’t see TV’, after which we hold seeing information, gazing away on the TV, then the kid will resolve, “Dad says no to me for TV, and he himself is having fun with it. Now, I too will take pleasure in.” And thus, he spends a gala time on iphone, whatsapp, fb, and so forth. That is how he learns from his dad and mom.
Somewhat, the answer is to sit down with him and lovingly clarify to him that ‘See, you will need to safe at the least these many grades in research. Work a bit onerous. Am not asking you to not see TV in any respect; you might watch half an hour of TV, however in the remainder of the time, end your homework, research nicely.’ That is how you might resolve their points as they come up, with a significant and balanced dialogue.
Kids are clearly extra more likely to make errors. As a substitute of scolding them for his or her errors, educate them to do pratikraman on a regular basis. Pratikraman means, each time your baby occurs to make a mistake, gently make him pray to God, “Expensive Lord, I made this error. I sincerely apologize for it and search your forgiveness. Please pardon me and grant me power in order that I don’t repeat this error ever once more.”
Inspite of doing pratikraman, he could proceed to err. That’s not an issue. Simply ask him to do pratikraman as soon as once more. Each time he does pratikraman, one layer of his mistake will get cleared. Thus, this train shall assist him overcome lots of his weaknesses he’s introduced ahead from his previous life.
For a conscious dwelling, one wants good focus, or else how will he observe consciousness. So on this route, on a regular basis, have your youngsters shut their eyes for 10 minutes and sing a prayer to the Lord, and whereas singing, ask them to see (visualize), with their closed eyes, every phrase that they are saying. This may improve their energy of focus and assist them progress within the route of mindfulness.
Additionally, encourage your youngsters to hope for world peace and salvation. And each morning, be sure that at the least 5 occasions, they make this pure internal intent earlier than God, that, ‘Might no dwelling being be brought on slightest damage by my ideas, phrases or any actions!’ This prayer shall go a great distance in moulding them within the route you aspire to.
Lastly, an important factor you might do is, have your youngsters sit with the dwelling Enlightened One (Gnani Purush), and spend as a lot time attainable in His firm. This may assist improve their mindfulness mechanically.
Following every of the above factors shall assist improve your mindfulness too!
We’re typically so misplaced and absorbed in our personal internal cobwebs, that a lot of the occasions, we stay drowned in our ideas internally, and actions hold occurring mechanically, externally. Unconsciously (with out our consciousness), we’re continuously and repeatedly reacting to those ideas and occasions by harbouring quite a few opinions and judgements, and harnessing varied intents, based mostly on our personal conclusions. We’re neither conscious of those undercurrents, nor do now we have an understanding of the dire penalties and the harm that these are inflicting to ourselves in addition to to our kids and household.
On this route, the Enlightened One strongly recommends us to realize Self-Realization. Once we notice, ‘who actually am I and who actually is the doer on this world i.e. how issues really occur by us and others’, that’s once we will know the proper method to a conscious dwelling.
So, method the Dwelling Gnani (the Enlightened One), and give up unto him all of your aspirations and duties, simply observe the trail proven by Him. Your work will definitely be performed there! 👍