All of us make errors in life. Once we do it’s essential to take applicable accountability, really feel the “wince,” and make amends as we are able to. However after we’ve carried out that…then what? Many individuals discover it simpler to forgive others than they do to really forgive themselves, and it’s not unusual to be burdened by extreme disgrace and guilt that has outlived its expiration date.
On this episode Dr. Rick and Forrest discover forgiveness, together with how we are able to forgive ourselves. This contains widespread myths and misunderstandings about forgiveness, the distinction between wholesome and unhealthy types of disgrace and regret, coming to phrases with what we’ve carried out, and a roadmap to reaching (self-)forgiveness.
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Key Topics:
0:00: Introduction
2:05: Assumptions, approval, and what forgiveness is and isn’t
7:45: What does wholesome regret appear to be?
10:00: Forrest exploring a dream about applicable regret
13:00: Our internalized justice system
17:00: Extra on goals and inner elements
24:25: Points of unhealthy regret
27:30: How you can transfer by way of a recurring cycle of disgrace and unhealthy regret
32:30: Proportionality, defensiveness, intention, and proudly owning your errors
41:00: Clear ache and soiled ache
46:55: Some concrete practices
51:40: Recap
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